This article explores why groups like this matter, what actually happens inside them, and why so many men benefit from being in a room — even a digital one — with others who understand what it means to feel stuck.
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Many men carry a quiet truth: life can feel heavy, and most of the time they carry that weight alone. The pressure to stay strong, stay calm, and stay in control — even when everything inside feels the opposite — can leave men stuck in their own heads with nowhere for that pressure to go.
That’s one of the reasons City Counselling Nottingham, facilitated by Jamie Glossop, is running a four‑week online men’s group pilot starting on 16th September 2026. Not as therapy in the traditional sense, and not as a place where anyone is expected to “perform,” but as a structured space where men can talk honestly, think clearly, and find a practical next step in their life.
Men Don’t Need Fixing — They Need Space
A lot of men don’t reach out because they think they need to be “sorted” before they can speak. But the reality is that most men’s struggles aren’t about being broken — they’re about being overwhelmed, isolated, or unsure what to do next.
Jamie's men’s group offers something rare: a place where you don’t have to have the answers before you arrive.
The focus of this group is solution‑focused work, and looking at what’s happening right now, exploring what’s getting in the way, and identifying small, realistic actions that can shift things forward. It’s not about digging into childhood or analysing your past. It’s about clarity, direction, and movement.
Jamie’s approach is structured, steady, and intentional. Each session follows the same rhythm, which helps men settle into the process without wondering what’s coming next.
There’s time to check in, time for those who want to speak, time to clarify what the real issue is, and time to identify one practical action to take into the week.
It’s simple — but powerful.
Men often arrive with a head full of noise.They leave with one clear thing they can do.
And sometimes, that’s exactly what’s needed.
The Power of Being Around Other Men
Something important happens when men are together and speak honestly. Not competitively. Just honestly.
In this group, men offer each other:
- contrast (“I’ve been there — here’s what helped me”)
- insight (“Have you noticed this pattern?”)
- relief (“I thought I was the only one dealing with that”)
- encouragement (“You’re not stuck — you’re just overwhelmed”)
There’s no pressure to share more than you want to. There’s no expectation to be confident or articulate.
Your presence alone contributes to the group.
And for many men, simply hearing others speak openly is enough to shift something inside.
Trust Isn’t Instant — It’s Built
A group like this relies on trust, but trust doesn’t mean being fearless. It means being willing.
Willing to be open rather than guarded. Willing to let the process unfold.
Willing to notice your reactions without shutting down.
You don’t need to be emotionally perfect — if you do feel overwhelmed, the group is designed to hold that with care, not judgement.
Conflict Isn’t a Problem — It’s Part of Being Human
Men often avoid conflict because they fear it will blow up or shut things down. But in group work, tension isn’t a failure — it’s information.
Misunderstandings are explored gently. Differences are normalised. Repair is supported.
This is one of the rare places where conflict can actually deepen connection rather than damage it.
Privacy, Safety, and Respect
Everything shared in the group stays in the group. Nothing is recorded. No one’s story is taken outside the room.
There are clear boundaries around confidentiality, with only a few exceptions related to safety or legal requirements — and these are always explained openly.
Your story remains yours.
Why Men’s Groups Matter Now More Than Ever
We live in a time where men are expected to be open, emotionally aware, communicative — but there sometimes just isnt the space to practise any of that safely.
A men’s group offers:
- structure
- clarity
- direction
- community
- accountability
- relief
It’s not about fixing men. It’s about giving men room to breathe.
And sometimes, that’s all it takes for things to start shifting.
About Jamie Glossop
Jamie Glossop is a humanistic counsellor based in Nottingham, offering online sessions across the UK. His practice focuses on helping people who are navigating major life changes — such as bereavement, illness, anxiety, relationship difficulties, redundancy, or retirement — and those who feel overwhelmed or stuck after trying to manage alone.
He provides a calm, reflective space to make sense of experiences and move forward with clarity and confidence. His approach blends person‑centred counselling, mindfulness, and compassion‑based methods, adapting flexibly to each client’s needs — whether they prefer open exploration or practical coping strategies.
Why Work With Jamie Glossop?
"I’ve worked with Jamie for a number of years, and throughout that time I’ve known him to bring a compassionate, empathic, and grounded approach to everything he does. He understands the realities of the world, and he communicates with honesty and integrity — he says what he means, and he means what he says. His deep respect for people and his non‑judgemental presence create a space where others feel able to be completely themselves. Jamie undertakes both group work and counselling with commitment and skill, and he continues to grow and develop as an extremely competent professional. Check out his profile and see what he's really about.
Benjamin Wright
Group Dates & Final Thoughts
The City Counselling Nottingham men’s group pilot isn’t about being perfect, sorted, or emotionally fluent. It’s about showing up as you are and taking one step at a time. The group dates are as follows:
- 16th September 4pm - 5:30pm
- 23rd September 4pm - 5:30pm
- 30th September 4pm- 5:30pm
- 7th October 4pm- 5:30pm
If you’re feeling stuck, under pressure, or unsure what comes next, this kind of space can offer something rare: a chance to pause, reflect, and move forward with support rather than alone.
Interested in starting the group? For further information, contact Jamie Glossop on: